Day 1 of 16 Days of Activism Against GBV
Breaking the Silence:
Abuse thrives in silence. Let’s break it together.
Today, as South Africa joins the world in launching the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence (GBV) campaign, we focus on "Breaking the Silence." Speaking out is the first step in dismantling the power that abuse holds over victims and survivors. It’s not just about telling stories—it’s about reclaiming power, finding justice, and inspiring change.
Why Silence Protects Abuse, Not Victims
In South Africa, gender-based violence has reached epidemic levels. The statistics are alarming:
On average, a woman is murdered every four hours in South Africa, with many of these killings being femicides.
Studies suggest 1 in 3 women globally experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetime.
Men and children are also victims, with boys less likely to report due to stigma and cultural expectations.
Despite these harrowing figures, the majority of GBV cases go unreported. Victims remain silent out of fear, shame, or lack of support. But breaking the silence can:
Expose abusers: Bringing their actions to light disrupts their power.
Inspire others: Survivors’ stories can empower others to seek help.
Push for change: Awareness creates pressure for legal, societal, and systemic action.
Breaking the Silence in South Africa
South Africa has one of the highest rates of reported GBV worldwide, and the pandemic has only worsened the situation. During the COVID-19 lockdowns, domestic violence cases surged by 37%. The lack of safe spaces, financial independence, and systemic support leaves many feeling trapped.
Why We’re Sharing Survivor Stories
Each voice that rises against GBV makes a difference. Sharing survivor stories is one of the most powerful ways to break the silence. Here’s why:
Humanizing the Statistics: Behind every number is a life—a mother, father, child, or friend whose story deserves to be heard.
Creating Solidarity: Survivors often feel isolated. Hearing others speak up shows them they’re not alone.
Challenging Stigma: Speaking out disrupts harmful narratives that blame victims or excuse abusers.
The Role of Men, Women, and Children
Gender-based violence affects everyone, and everyone has a role to play:
Men: Support each other, hold abusers accountable, and demand systemic change. Challenge toxic masculinity, call out abusive behaviours, and offer allyship to survivors.
Women: Support each other, hold abusers accountable, and demand systemic change.
Children: Learn to recognize abuse and speak up when they see or experience it, with the support of trusted adults.
How You Can Help Break the Silence
1. Speak Out
If you’re a survivor, know that your voice matters. Sharing your story, whether privately or publicly, can empower others and help break the cycle of abuse.
2. Support Survivors
Listen without judgment. Validate their experiences and encourage them to seek help. Sometimes, your support can be the lifeline they need.
3. Educate Yourself and Others
Learn about GBV, its causes, and how to prevent it. Share resources, stats, and survivor stories to spread awareness.
4. Use Your Platform
Social media is a powerful tool. Share posts, videos, and hashtags like #16DaysOfActivism, #EndGBV, #BreakingTheSilence, and #365DaysOfAction to amplify the message.
5. Advocate for Change
Demand stronger laws, better enforcement, and more resources for survivors. Advocacy can start with a simple email to local officials or signing petitions.
Daily Awareness Challenge: Speak Up and Share
Today’s challenge is simple:
Post a message or share a story about the importance of breaking the silence on GBV.
Use the hashtags #16DaysOfActivism and #BreakingTheSilence to amplify your voice.
Tag three friends to encourage them to join the conversation.
Real Stories: Survivors Breaking the Silence
Nomvula’s Story:
After enduring years of abuse from her partner, Nomvula found the courage to leave and share her story publicly. Today, she’s a vocal advocate for GBV survivors in South Africa, working to raise awareness and offer support to others.
Her message? "Silence keeps us trapped. Speaking out sets us free."
Thabo’s Story:
As a male survivor of childhood abuse, Thabo struggled with shame and societal stigma. When he finally spoke up, he not only found healing but also inspired other men to break their silence.
His advice? "Your story matters. Don’t let anyone silence your truth."
Together, We Can Make Every Day Count
While 16 Days of Activism is a powerful campaign, GBV doesn’t stop after December 10. Abuse doesn’t rest, so neither can we. Let’s use these 16 days to build momentum for a future where breaking the silence becomes the norm, not the exception.
Remember: Your voice has power. Let’s raise it, amplify it, and use it to end GBV—for South Africa, and for the world.
Resources:
Childline South Africa: 0800 055 555
Rise Facebook Page: www.riseagainstdomesticviolence.co.za
Join the conversation. Share. Speak out. Take action. Together, we rise.
Zenda-Lee Williams speaks about what eliminating violence against women means to her. This is part of a campaign. RISE is inclusive of helping both women and men affected by domestic violence.
